Lesley (client)
When I first met Ann, I was trying to figure out where I was going in
my life, and trying to figure out the world around me. Especially in
my new job. I didn’t understand the situation that I was in, with a new
boss, new job and very different company culture.
I
had no idea what people were doing, what their motivations were for the
strange behaviour I perceived, and no matter what I tried, nothing was
working.
It was the perfect storm of confusion for me,
as along with all of that, I didn’t know how to express what I was
feeling. I didn’t know that I would have to learn a new vocabulary to
articulate my feelings. Up until that point, my career had followed a
particular route, study hard, get the degree, do the management training
course, get appointed to senior positions at a very early age and work
in organisations that followed a particular format of success, and make
money. That I had no time or energy to spend.
As I look
back, I can now see that this situation for the first time allowed me to
stop focusing on the external world’s view of success and learned to
look inwards to what I wanted.
Through the coaching I
started to learn how to articulate my feelings, understand not only my
energy, but the energy other people bring and manage that energy in a
productive way. These insights have been transformational as up until
our coaching I just thought everyone picked up on the same things as me.
And I now know, they don’t. I now trust myself more and trust in a
sense of something within each of us that can´t easily be explained.
8
years ago, I changed my life. I was looking out the windows and it was
grey cloudy Scottish winters day and I said to myself and the universe
“I want more to life than this”. Simultaneously, and unknown to me, my
now husband had a feeling that someone from another country was his soul
mate and would one day come to find him.
With my new
confidence and trust in myself I made the leap to live in Spain, where I
met my husband and started a completely new life. Since then, I´ve
moved to a beautiful island and now run a successful change management
consultancy and training business. The skills, tools and insights that I
have learned during the coaching are such an integral part of what I
now do that I look back and can´t understand how I was able to function
in the world without the knowledge, and self-awareness that I have now.
Meeting Ann and working with her over the years has been
a blessing, and a health-saving factor in my life as well. I´m much
clearer in what I want from life, and in taking care of myself and my boundaries and I would never have achieved that without Ann´s continuing support.